The Rock and The Water: Identifying Your Role in the Flow of Life
Life can often be depicted as a river - a continuous, dynamic, and sometimes turbulent flow of experiences, emotions, and decisions. We all navigate this river in different ways, and it's common for people to identify themselves as the water, seamlessly going with the flow, adapting to the changes and shaping their journey accordingly. But have you ever considered the possibility of being the rock, instead of the water?
The concept of being the rock in the river of life is intriguing, yet often overlooked. The rock, with its solid and unchanging nature, doesn't move with the current but instead alters the course of the water. It stands firm, weathering the ebbs and flows of life with resilience and determination.
Being the rock doesn't mean you are resisting life's flow or being stubborn. Instead, it signifies having a steadfast character, holding onto your beliefs, and being the guiding force that shapes your life's currents instead of simply following them. The rock shapes the water's path, has an influence on its direction, and even adds a bit of its essence to the water as it rushes by.
The Power of Being the Rock
Be the rock in the river of life. Stand firm in your beliefs, weather the storms, and shape your own journey. You have the power to influence and guide the currents. Embrace your strength and resilience.
On the other hand, being the water signifies flexibility, adaptability, and acceptance. Water takes the shape of its container, overcomes obstacles by flowing around them, and constantly moves towards its destination, no matter how winding the journey. It's about learning to accept and adapt to circumstances, making the most out of the situations life presents us with.
Embracing the Fluidity of Being the Water
Sometimes, it’s essential to be like the water - adaptable, flexible, and open to change. Flow around obstacles, accept the twists and turns, and keep moving towards your destination.
But, it's essential to realize that the rock and the water are not mutually exclusive identities. They are two aspects of the same journey - our life. Sometimes, we need to be the rock - stand firm in our decisions, follow our own path, and influence our surroundings. Other times, we need to be the water - adaptable, open to change, and able to flow around obstacles.
In the end, the choice between being the rock or the water is not about choosing a fixed identity. It's about knowing when to be firm and when to be flexible, understanding when to influence the flow and when to adapt to it. It's about mastering the art of balance and learning to be both the rock and the water as per the demands of our life's river.
The river of life will continue to flow, with all its unpredictable twists and turns. How you choose to navigate it - as the rock, the water, or a combination of both - is entirely up to you. Remember, both the rock and the water are essential to the river's journey, just as they are to your journey of life.
Renee founded 11 Eleven Healing in 2018 after leaving a 15 year career in insurance and financial services. She is an author, two-time certified Reiki Master Practitioner, Medium and Functional Intuitive. Renee is married and a mom and stepmom to 4 teenagers and a four-legged child. She is a Ridgewood resident and has been residing in Bergen County, NJ since 2011. She has also spent 10+ years dedicating significant time to the community as a mental and emotional health advocate to mothers and teens.
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